No one can be sure if a relationship can stay strong and happy forever. It might and it might not. Or if your partner would change to be better or worse, or even someone you doesn’t recognise anymore.. It might and it might not.

Just like what my mum said, every relationship is a bet. Either you go for it and accept all kind of possibilities, or you don’t at all.

Well, I don’t know the situation, but personally I think its possible to have both happiness and live comfortably. Then again, its my honest opinion that as long as you try, and really go for it, then anything is possible.

I’m currently going to college hours away from my boyfriend, and we go a few months at a time without seeing each other at all. And, while that’s not the happiest situation to be in, at the same time, we’re looking ahead. We’re thinking, “well, this sucks now… but we’ll just have to work our hardest so that in four years when we graduate from college, we can have nice jobs and live together in a nice apartment.” We have fights a lot about how we never get to see each other and how we never have time for each other. But in the end, we realize that what we’re doing now is important to our future. That if we lived in complete happiness with each other now, we’d have nothing to live for in the future.

And, again, I don’t know the full situation, but I think its possible to make a compromise. I think that every relationship has to go through its own difficulties. And if I had to choose, I would choose to forgo the happiness now in order to built both happiness and comfort later.

Happiness. I know it probably seems unthoughtout but I really have thought about it. I need someone who would care about me. If things went bad, we would be able to keep each other going.